七年之痒
释义 DEFINITION
七年之痒原指婚姻关系进入第七年时可能出现的情感危机现象,源自1955年玛丽莲·梦露主演的同名好莱坞电影《The Seven Year Itch》。在当代中文互联网语境中,该词已拓展为泛指任何长期关系中出现的倦怠期,适用场景包括但不限于:
- 职场(对工作失去热情)
- 兴趣爱好(持续投入后产生疲惫感)
- 商业合作(长期合作伙伴关系僵化)
根据百度指数显示,该词在社交媒体平台的使用量较传统婚姻场景增长300%,约68%的年轻网民将其用于非婚恋话题讨论。
词源故事 ETYMOLOGY
这个概念的流行化始于2010年代社交媒体爆发期。豆瓣小组「反鸡汤联盟」用户首次将职场困境比作「七年之痒」,获得12万点赞并形成模因传播。2018年,B站UP主「老蒋巨靠谱」在解析《头号玩家》彩蛋时调侃:「追这个导演的作品就像婚姻,现在到七年之痒了」,相关切片视频播放量突破500万。
2021年出现关键语义转折:小米公司内部论坛流出会议纪要,雷军提到「与安卓系统的七年之痒」,引发科技媒体广泛转载。自此该词完成从情感领域向商业/科技领域的语义迁移,知乎「如何应对职业七年之痒」问题累计获得3700+回答。
典型用例:
「做自媒体第五年,还没到七年之痒就先得抑郁症了」(微博高赞评论)
「中国男足和世界杯的七年之痒——从2002到2023,我们痒了二十一年」(虎扑热帖标题)
DEFINITION
The Seven-Year Itch, originally describing a hypothetical decline in marital satisfaction around the seventh year of marriage, has evolved into a cultural metaphor for relationship fatigue in Chinese cyber culture. Now broadly applied to:
- Career stagnation (losing passion after years in the same job)
- Creative burnout (diminishing returns on long-term hobbies)
- Partnership dynamics (stalemates in business collaborations)
Similar to the Western concept of 'the grind' but with specific temporal framing. Recent Douyin analytics show 72% of related hashtags reference non-romantic situations.
ETYMOLOGY
The term's cyber renaissance began on Douban's 'Anti-Chicken Soup Alliance' forum circa 2015, where a user metaphorically compared career plateaus to marital stagnation, garnering 120K likes. Critical mass came in 2018 when Bilibili creator 'Reliable Lao Jiang' humorously applied it to film fandom during a Ready Player One analysis video, generating 5M views.
A pivotal 2021 leak from Xiaomi's internal forum showed CEO Lei Jianguing discussing 'the seven-year itch with Android OS', triggering widespread tech media coverage. This catalyzed the term's crossover into business/tech discourse, with Zhihu's 'How to Handle Career Seven-Year Itch' thread accumulating 3.7K+ responses.
Notable contemporary usage:
"Five years into being a influencer, I got depression before the seven-year itch even hit" (Weibo top comment)
"Chinese soccer's eternal itch - 21 years of World Cup longing since 2002" (Hupu trending post)